tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post1142528535775872513..comments2023-10-30T05:01:33.905-07:00Comments on From the Inside...Out: Love Hurtskathrynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06152568985075401447noreply@blogger.comBlogger54125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-53829719931339041892009-11-20T17:00:35.872-08:002009-11-20T17:00:35.872-08:00cynica sarcastamos: Aw...thank you for that (defin...cynica sarcastamos: Aw...thank you for that (definitely NOT feeble!) explanation....sounds like this is a tad familiar to you, my dear. And you're totally on the mark with the "this is normal, expected and routine"....and you nailed my reaction as well! 6 weeks and the wire comes off, the root canals can be finished and maybe life will resume it's regularly scheduled programming. Thanks so much for the commment!kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06152568985075401447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-42865657759661938172009-11-19T17:30:07.899-08:002009-11-19T17:30:07.899-08:00Kathryn, you ARE SuperMom! (Who else could make me...Kathryn, you ARE SuperMom! (Who else could make me laugh throughout a story like this?!) <br />Here's my (feeble?) attempt to comfort you: I am fluent in 'dental' and I can tell you that the worst IS over. That would be the 'trauma': i.e., the injury, the blood, the pain, the weirdness toward the buddy who delivered the blow, etc. <br />Now be prepared to hear lots of: "This is normal.", "This is to be expected." or "It's all routine." as you sit with your baby and think, 'NOT normal!' 'NOT expected!' and 'NOT routine!'. (Silly doctors, anyway.)<br />Hang in there, Amazing Mom. It's all in a day's work for the specialists. (They'll pre-medicate him with a sleepy drug prior to any treatment appts, right?)<br />Just remember that this will all be but a mere - though icky - memory soon!Cynica Sarcastamoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16083960071496699160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-76793280928338550412009-11-19T17:06:22.762-08:002009-11-19T17:06:22.762-08:00Chrissy: Thanks, sweetie. It'll get better...e...Chrissy: Thanks, sweetie. It'll get better...eventually. It always does...eventually!kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06152568985075401447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-8023026067639385292009-11-19T16:53:11.491-08:002009-11-19T16:53:11.491-08:00Krissi: It's not easy, right? My favorite is w...Krissi: It's not easy, right? My favorite is when you simply want to curl up in the fetal position and weep...but of course, we can't.<br /><br />serendipitous: Yes...I think it's hard to feel that lack of control over what's happening...and knowing you can't "fix" things like you could when they were little. That part's hard.<br /><br />Wendy Blum: Wow....I'm glad Zane was okay, too! (Did you EVER ask him why he was playing golf outside in the winter? Now I'd like to know, please.) I'm actually glad to have made it this far without any major injuries (of course, I've just knocked on wood as I typed this)...with 3 boys, anything can happen!<br /><br />Clandestiny: Thank you, sweetie....and thank you for sharing that special part of your life here. I'm sure that your volunteering has helped you to have much more empathy for people with disabilities...it takes a very special person with a lot of patience to do what your mom did. These people are way under paid and under appreciated.kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06152568985075401447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-89410952122591373672009-11-19T16:25:47.650-08:002009-11-19T16:25:47.650-08:00J9: Gosh, I hope so! Finding my poker face was rea...J9: Gosh, I hope so! Finding my poker face was really hard that time!<br /><br />lifelove'n'wine: Thanks, Jen! I'm keeping my fingers crossed that he'll make it thru all this with only a manly-scar on his chin as a reminder. That would suit me just fine.<br /><br />~:C:~ Awww! How sweet are you? See? Now, if only your neighbor (bi-atch) had done that, you wouldn't have gone through hell and back!! (You poor thing!)<br /><br />Loredana: I know what you mean. Sure, we know situations will improve...but what about our overall life? I actually find it's better not to look too hard at the "big picture"...it's too scary. I just break it down into bitty pieces and take it from there. It's less frightening that way.<br /><br />Sara: Thanks...I'm working hard to ensure the next bit if news is definitely good news. I appreciate the well-wishes.<br /><br />JD at I Do Things: Thank you, my dear. I hope you don't mind my poking fun at the two of us...I really couldn't resist. You'd make an excellent semi-nude grandma/wolf....don't you think? <br /><br />carissajaded: Aw...that's sweet of you to say! I'm grateful it wasn't any worse...and I'm super-happy to be back here again!<br /><br />Lauren: I know! It's hard not to want to throttle someone, right? <br />Grrrrrr.<br /><br />chickasauras_rex: I appreciate the empathy, sweetie. No more cringing...for either of us! Must. Find. Humor. Must laugh...it's the best medicine...right?<br /><br />lauren: Aw, thank you! I was just there...how did I miss that??kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06152568985075401447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-5365995581332424812009-11-19T15:20:14.309-08:002009-11-19T15:20:14.309-08:00Mark Price: Thanks, bud. I don't know the firs...Mark Price: Thanks, bud. I don't know the first thing about punches to the mouth. I'm hearing words like "upper cut" and "lucky punch"....I'm thinking words like "juvenile delinquent" and "assault".<br /><br />Gay Guy: Aw, you sweet man...you've given me many smiles over the last 18 months. (Minds out of the gutter, people.) You'd make an excellent parent, GG...of this, I am sure. You'd have the most well-educated, well-rounded, well-loved, best-dressed kid in town. Now pass me a crepe, please.<br /><br />Spot: You were a Godsend, my dear! I hope you know that. Every time I heard the chime of my phone, I was reminded that I wasn't alone...that life existed outside of that little room with that incessant drilling! And YES-Kevin is an excellent patient...I'm very grateful for that.kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06152568985075401447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-31549563816432083212009-11-19T15:03:08.567-08:002009-11-19T15:03:08.567-08:00Maureen@IslandRoar: Thanks...from one mommy to ano...Maureen@IslandRoar: Thanks...from one mommy to another, I know you can relate. I'd no idea that one hard punch could cause so much damage. It never should have happened, though...<br /><br />jmberrygirl: Well, that's good to hear...that worse case, he can still look like he's got his front teeth. I'm still hoping they'll be able to save both of them.<br /><br />B-ster: Aw, I'd never leave on vacation without telling you guys! (Believe me, you'd KNOW if I were going away!!Seriously.)kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06152568985075401447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-3917038353921571722009-11-19T14:00:26.105-08:002009-11-19T14:00:26.105-08:00Gillian: Uh-huh...that's me...but, I've go...Gillian: Uh-huh...that's me...but, I've got much better hair than that woman!!<br /><br />Lou: Thank you....hey, we've all got our challenges. It's never a dull moment...that's for sure!<br /><br />Runnergirl: It's my pleasure, sweetie! I'm super-glad for the diversion...hanging out with all of you is a blast!<br /><br />Rambles'N'Shambles: As I've said before, you are wise beyond your years, young lady. Thank you for the reminder to keep fighting...and I will, dammit!<br /><br />dailyseeking: Thank you! I'm happy to BE back! I missed you guys!<br /><br />Foyce! Thanks, Secret-Agent....you're da best!<br /><br />Smileyfreak: Thank you...I'll pass on your kind wishes for his speedy recovery. We're getting there...<br /><br />Tina: Thanks so much. I really appreciate all the kind words. It's so lovely to have so much support here!kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06152568985075401447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-73514210061642003592009-11-19T13:01:27.917-08:002009-11-19T13:01:27.917-08:00Fierce:Thanks so much, sweetie! I think (hope) it ...Fierce:Thanks so much, sweetie! I think (hope) it helps explain why this place is so special to me. Here, I'm able to just be ME. No judgment, no "special circumstances"...just me. Love that!<br /><br />WannabeVirginiaW: Ain't that the truth! It's really hard to not totally lose it on people...to try and keep your cool...esp. when the person you're dealing with is just the messenger...and they're saying, "Don't shoot!"<br /><br />Dreamfarm Girl: Aw, thank you for the lovely compliment! Altho, I doubt I could have told the story without spitting nails a few days ago! That's where time and distance are definitely a good thing.<br /><br />Smoog! Yeah, well...I don't always feel so strong. But today's been a good, productive day...where I didn't groan each and every time the phone rang. I can live with that! Thanks for the encouragement!<br /><br />Alicia: Aw, thanks sweetie. I'm convinced that I'm automatically funnier once I click that button that brings me "home" (re: here in blogville). I'm very fortunate to be in such great company.kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06152568985075401447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-68616141170301517222009-11-19T12:00:12.655-08:002009-11-19T12:00:12.655-08:00Mrs. Prissy Pants: Thanks so much for the kind tho...Mrs. Prissy Pants: Thanks so much for the kind thoughts. It's always hard to accept the simple fact that some things can't be fixed, no matter how much we love them. **I can't comment back at your place! The f*%#&ing word verification thingie is cut off and there's no place for me to type it in! Have you noticed you're not getting any comments???**kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06152568985075401447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-24939577354295786982009-11-19T04:20:54.234-08:002009-11-19T04:20:54.234-08:00Heather: Yes, yes and YES! I'm sure there will...Heather: Yes, yes and YES! I'm sure there will be some punishment for the "puncher", but they've not made a decision yet. It's difficult (to put it mildly) when both parties are special-needs. It also sucks.<br /><br />Gavin: No, not a lame comment. I appreciate your taking the time to comment at all! It's hard to know what to say to something like this. Believe me, I know!<br /><br />Erin@TheLocalsLoveIt: Thank you...the parody of that Photoshopped image was supposed to remind myself (and anyone who's struggling) that we all just do the best we can...and that'll just have to be enough.<br /><br />KellyGrrl: Yes, I have to admit...I hope this kid gets to experience what he's put my son through. I don't think any of us were prepared for how "involved" it would be. Yikes....<br /><br />Tom Bailey: Thank you...you're absolutely correct...it is sooo complicated, with so many possible outcomes. The disability-part on both ends just makes it that much more of a challenge. I appreciate the understanding...<br /><br />ValleyWriter: Thanks. I wasn't so funny last weekend....but I'm relieved to see that the humor's still lurking somewhere inside. I'm so appreciating all the kind words posted here...<br /><br />Gigi: Aw, thanks sweetie! I really do appreciate that. Just knowing you guys are listening and are kind enough to take the time to comment is comfort enough!<br /><br />book*addict: Thanks, doll. He's continuing to improve physically and the rest'll have to be dealt with. We'll get through it. Thank God I've got this place to come and vent and feel accepted...with autism in your life, you don't always get that in the "real world". Makes my home here extra-special.kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06152568985075401447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-27674703697372713742009-11-18T19:48:53.874-08:002009-11-18T19:48:53.874-08:00These pictures are great! Sorry you had such a cra...These pictures are great! Sorry you had such a crappy week.Bobby Allanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17362990178566295070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-14839574599257860922009-11-18T19:47:06.356-08:002009-11-18T19:47:06.356-08:00Oh Kathryn, no wonder you were so frazzled! I'...Oh Kathryn, no wonder you were so frazzled! I'm so sorry that all of you are having to go through this but I have to say in all honesty that it touches me too. My mother worked for MHMR most of her life and I spent a good part of my summers volunteering there. I developed a very soft spot for the special people there. Usually they had this great childlike innocence and such love and joy at times it was just dazzling! I'll definitely keep warm thoughts and healing love headed to you all. I hope everything comes out ok.Clandestinyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03836962288846828198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-84667004503191892832009-11-18T18:21:53.206-08:002009-11-18T18:21:53.206-08:00Wow! You really are super mom. That's A LOT of...Wow! You really are super mom. That's A LOT of pain and stress. But that's what we sign up for as parents... Like it or not. Last year, my oldest son was hit in the head with a golf club at a friends house. He had a hole in his head the size of a silver dollar and a skull fracture. We were really lucky because it was winter and he was wearing one of those hat/face mask things and his glasses. Both of which we think helped deflect some of the impact. We never even bothered to wonder why the boys decided to play with a golf club outside in winter. We were just happy Zane didn't lose and eye...or worse. Sincerely hope your son gets better asap. And it's great to have you back. Blog world wouldn't be the same with out YOU =Dwendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08737799277071093390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-90552423168174617082009-11-18T15:43:47.149-08:002009-11-18T15:43:47.149-08:00Wow, that is a very stressful week. I hope everyth...Wow, that is a very stressful week. I hope everything turns out okay in the end. I am sorry your son got punched in the first place and that he has had to go through so much pain since. It must be hard to see your child in pain...Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07644019083686417609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-90212758309611598152009-11-18T13:53:11.091-08:002009-11-18T13:53:11.091-08:00I have had one of those weeks where the mother bea...I have had one of those weeks where the mother bear is not happy. I would love to do some growling a little bit of swiping and maybe a bite or two. I'm starting to think civilized is underrated.Krissihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00050846887407732173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-19702400109712459162009-11-18T13:38:20.099-08:002009-11-18T13:38:20.099-08:00I forgot this earlier... I gots an award waiting f...I forgot this earlier... I gots an award waiting for you.Laurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12082710284244037843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-6065986074188027492009-11-18T13:06:08.292-08:002009-11-18T13:06:08.292-08:00Wow that is tough, glad things are settling down a...Wow that is tough, glad things are settling down a bit now. This post made me really cringe, I can't imagine how stressful that must have been for you. Take care.<br />xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-2573537902997135722009-11-18T11:57:48.248-08:002009-11-18T11:57:48.248-08:00I only have two words. HOLY CRAP! Way to get throu...I only have two words. HOLY CRAP! Way to get through it though. God! Should I go get my pitchfork? I know I have one somewhere.Laurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12082710284244037843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-76557351448691462452009-11-18T11:46:05.729-08:002009-11-18T11:46:05.729-08:00Kathryn I'm so sorry that this week has been s...Kathryn I'm so sorry that this week has been so awful!! And yes,I think you definitely qualify as super mom. Or whatever trumps that.carissajadedhttp://www.carissajaded.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-70793213480297830062009-11-18T11:31:59.177-08:002009-11-18T11:31:59.177-08:00Oh, my gosh. I don't know whether to laugh or ...Oh, my gosh. I don't know whether to laugh or cry. Well, I'll laugh a bit just at the first part, especially my head in that grandma/wolf getup.<br /><br />Not laughing now. I'm so sorry. I can't imagine going thru something like this. You know we're all here for you. Whatever we can do . . .JD at I Do Thingshttp://idothings.infonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-55105293610827789682009-11-18T11:25:54.484-08:002009-11-18T11:25:54.484-08:00I hope it all turns out alright in the end. I'...I hope it all turns out alright in the end. I'll cross my fingers that the next bit of news you get is good news.Indiri Woodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07107905468709485217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-69694538470613744082009-11-18T11:04:11.720-08:002009-11-18T11:04:11.720-08:00Lately all I've been thinking about is the &qu...Lately all I've been thinking about is the "simpler days". Days even a short while ago. I looked up at pictures my husband and I have on our walls and noticed how just a few years ago things were different. We hadn't been punched in the face with some realitities of life. We hadn't even touched the surface I guess. And it's when you're going through something that you never seem to see your way out and you wonder 'will those simler days ever come back, do they even exist any longer?'<br /><br />I'm sorry your son had to go through that, that's awful. And you are a supermom, no matter how many things you can do at once, just being a mom is super!<br /><br />Hope everything turns out well soon.Loredanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10281756601492887263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-90538219877029290492009-11-18T10:43:38.009-08:002009-11-18T10:43:38.009-08:00To put it not so eloquently, that sucks. I'm s...To put it not so eloquently, that sucks. I'm so sorry, Kathryn. I hope he feels better sooner than expected. *non-contagious hug*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6370763014722326902.post-52675821919035912292009-11-18T09:22:53.295-08:002009-11-18T09:22:53.295-08:00Oh my gosh, Kathryn. I'm so sorry about all o...Oh my gosh, Kathryn. I'm so sorry about all of this! I hope that everything ends up ok and that he doesn't lose his teeth. I can't imagine having to sit and see that your child is in pain. You ARE a Supermom and I'm sure your boys both know how much you love them. It's obvious to all of us that you're the best!Jen Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04436569833867017062noreply@blogger.com